So much of marriage was implicit and nonverbal. Had I gotten so complacent I'd forgotten to communicate?

Jodi Picoult
About This Quote

Having married friends or relatives you can't help but notice how important it is to communicate. You may not realize it until you don't do it. If you are married, this is a common problem. It's called "getting so complacent" and couples who get too complacent often overlook the importance of good communication.

They drift apart because they are talking different languages or because their priorities are different or because they are getting too busy with their own lives. The last thing that people think about when getting married is what it means to be married. Sometimes you want to ignore the little things that get between you and your marriage.

So much of marriage was implicit and nonverbal, so you have to ask yourself, "Have I forgotten to communicate?"

Source: Handle With Care

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